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From “I Don’t Know” to “Here’s What I Did”: Helping Students Brag the Right Way

Written by ACT | Jun 6, 2025 3:43:29 PM

How many times have you asked a student, “What are you proud of?” only to get a blank stare or the classic, “I don’t know”? Whether they’re prepping for college apps, scholarship essays, or asking for letters of recommendation, most students struggle to talk about themselves. 

Enter: the brag sheet. 

A brag sheet gives students a space to reflect, gather their thoughts, and start building a personal highlight reel. It’s part resume, part journal, and all about helping them feel confident about what they bring to the table. And guess what? Summer is the perfect time to start one. 

What Students Can Brag About (Yes, It Counts!) 

Encourage students to start writing down what makes them them. It doesn’t have to be formal or fancy. If it mattered to them or helped them grow, it belongs on the sheet. Here are a few ideas: 

  • Leadership roles (official titles or just stepping up) 
  • Volunteer work or helping out in the community 
  • Part-time jobs, babysitting, or helping at home 
  • Sports, clubs, or other activities they enjoy 
  • Awards or shoutouts they’ve received 
  • Projects they created or contributed to 
  • Classes they loved (and why) 
  • Challenges they’ve overcome 
  • Goals they’re setting for the next school year 

Tip: If a student says, “I don’t think I did anything special,” that’s your cue to dig a little deeper. You’d be surprised how much they’ve done once they start talking. 

How You Can Help Students Find Their Voice 

You don’t need a full summer program to help students start a brag sheet. Here are a few quick and easy ways to get it going: 

  • Share a brag sheet template in your end-of-year email or on your counseling website 
  • Host a virtual or in-person “Brag & Snacks” session 
  • Encourage students to record voice memos or keep a note in their phone 
  • Post weekly reflection questions on your Instagram or newsletter (like “What’s one thing you did this week that made you smile?”) 
  • Use brag sheets as conversation starters in fall check-ins 

Bonus: Brag sheets help YOU, too! Writing recommendation letters or helping with personal statements gets so much easier when students have already done the groundwork. 

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Final Thought 

When students feel seen and supported, they start to see themselves differently. A brag sheet helps them put their story into words: honestly, proudly, and with purpose. With a little reflection, “I don’t know what to say” becomes “Let me tell you what I’ve done.”